You don’t have to 1:1 swap, someone can stay in your place (reserving via credits), and you can look for another Kindred or stay elsewhere!

One of the best things about Kindred is that you don’t have to do a direct 1:1 swap. You can earn credits by hosting someone in your home and use them to stay somewhere amazing on a different trip—giving you total flexibility. No need to coordinate a direct exchange (though that option is available too)—just choose the home that works best for you!

I only go the credit route.